Table Talks with the Tares
Husband and wife duo MJ & Ash believe honest self-reflection is a critical component in growth. Listen in on their conversations as they process what their words and actions are currently cultivating in their home, work, relationships, and ministry.
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Monday Jul 03, 2023
Monday Jul 03, 2023
In this episode we unpack the multigenerational family living approach that we have taken on as a family. We talk about its pros and cons and why we decided to live together with multiple generations under one roof.
Resources that have helped us: Anything written by Jeremy Pryor
Blog post referencing the morning meetings: https://honestunderscore.com/morning-meeting/
Movie mentioned: Avalon by Barry Levinson
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We appreciate your support and taking time to join us at our table!
Monday Jun 26, 2023
Monday Jun 26, 2023
In this episode we have a big life update! We’re talking about things to come and a recent loss in the family. We also wrestle through the concept of God’s favor, our faithfulness, and suffering. We’re excited for this next chapter in our life and are grateful to have you taking part in our journey!
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Monday Jun 19, 2023
Monday Jun 19, 2023
In this brief episode we take a quick break from regular programming to thank you for your continued support. We also want to let you know we have a couple of updates as a family we want to let you know about. Thanks for being part of our journey.
We’d love to hear from you! Let us know what your questions/thoughts are and email at ashley@honestunderscore.com
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Monday Jun 12, 2023
Monday Jun 12, 2023
In this episode we finish out our little mini series discussion on the book How We Love by Milan and Kay Yerkovich. Having taken the time to discuss the breakdown of a vacillator in a relationship with an avoider, we explore the lessons we’ve learned being married to each other with our love styles for over 7 years.
Resources mentioned:
How We Love Our Kids book: https://howwelove.com/shop/how-we-love-our-kids-book/
How We Love book: https://howwelove.com/shop/how-we-love-book/
How We Love quiz: https://howwelove.com/love-style-quiz/
Thank you for being at our table and taking part in our journey of self-reflection. We would love to hear from you! Email us at ashley@honestunderscore.com
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Monday Jun 05, 2023
Monday Jun 05, 2023
In this episode we explore how a vacillator and avoider love style collides with each other. It is one of the most common love styles that end up in counseling. We take time to break down how we as a Avoider/Vacillator couple argue and work through conflict.
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Monday May 29, 2023
Monday May 29, 2023
In this episode we continue our conversation on the book that has been transformative in how we identify and work through our relationship conflict cycle. We dive into the Avoider love style and we also explore what I would tell my younger self if I could.
Monday May 22, 2023
Monday May 22, 2023
In this episode we talk about a book that has been transformative in how we identify and work through our fight/conflict cycle. We dive deep into the Vacillator love style and how it plays out in our relationship.
Resources Mentioned:
How We Love book: https://howwelove.com/shop/how-we-love-book/
How We Love quiz: https://howwelove.com/love-style-quiz/
Leave us a comment and review! Let us know what you want us to talk about next! Reach us at ashley@honestunderscore.com
Love,MJ & Ash
Monday May 15, 2023
Monday May 15, 2023
In this episode we unpack how the postmodern church model is designed to yield the results it is producing: pastors that are burning out, & members that are labeled noncommittal. Our desire is to explore what the original intent of the church was as it was described in Ephesians with the various spiritual giftings (apostles, prophets, evangelists, teachers, shepherds).
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Monday May 08, 2023
Monday May 08, 2023
In this episode we unpack our thoughts on tithing and where we’re at in the journey of discovering what it means to be generous as a believer. The conversation was sparked by a discussion I had at a bible study where we talked about someone who gave anonymously because it gave them a freedom to know they were supporting a cause without the baggage of being associated with the amount they were giving.
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Monday May 01, 2023
Monday May 01, 2023
Today’s episode is a special episode where we have invited our dear friends Albert & Yemi Mutesa to our table. In this episode we talk about the unique cultural backgrounds they are bringing into their family, their experience living in the US, and the best parts of their upbringing and culture that they want to carry forward into the future for their family.
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