Table Talks with the Tares
How do you know you're showing up the way you mean to? You won't unless you stop to check.
MJ and Ash are a husband and wife with completely opposite wiring. Raising kids in the years the intent is high, but the capacity is low. Every week they get honest about the story playing underneath the home they’re trying to build together, share notes and recalibrate before the next week. Because wanting better doesn’t always mean doing better.
Episodes
Sep 4, 2023
Sep 4, 2023
34 min
In this episode we talk about Pastor James guest speaking at convocation! We then morph the conversation to church accountability and serving at the church. We also give guidance on how to serve when it feels hard to serve at the church.
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Aug 28, 2023
Aug 28, 2023
38 min
This episode is more casual conversation about your health journey and where we’re at, along with a conversation about our experience renting a Tesla for a day.
Resources mentioned:
Mind Pump Media: https://www.mindpumpmedia.com/
Current Program I’m using: https://www.mindpumpmedia.com/maps-anabolic
Faster Way: https://www.fasterwaytofatloss.com
Please leave us a rating and review! We’d love to hear from you. If you have any questions, send us an email at ashley@honestunderscore.com
Aug 21, 2023
Aug 21, 2023
35 min
In this episode we discuss Ash’s journey from full time Chief Talent Development Officer to full time at home raising children. She describes the steps she took to get there and why she chose to raise her kids instead of returning back to work full time.
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Aug 14, 2023
Aug 14, 2023
39 min
In this episode we unpack Ash’s journey of how she’s dealing with the impact of a recent prayer she’s prayed asking God to remove fear in her life. We discuss the threat of a mysterious and inexplicable cancer cluster in the surrounding area and the importance of anchoring ourselves to the truth of Scripture. Fear is actually a grab at control and so we talk about the benefits of taking every thought captive in the daily battle of conquering fear.
Resources mentioned:
Book - https://www.amazon.com/Switch-Your-Brain-Happiness-Thinking/dp/0801018390/ref=asc_df_0801018390?nodl=1&tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=312134205520&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=17110386029484216448&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=m&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9009919&hvtargid=pla-434624176759&psc=1&dplnkId=7b1568fe-93b7-4b78-a82c-7695fe7db983
Song - https://open.spotify.com/track/7fTB6AmnnOm1zKI5QN69Yc?si=3O8g1xhzSni-OqC0V_XbcA&context=spotify%
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Aug 7, 2023
Aug 7, 2023
33 min
In this episode we dig into the differences between closeness and togetherness. By this we mean the difference between proximity and intimacy. Just because you’re close to someone because you see them all the time or hang out with them all the time, it does not mean that you necessarily are also close to them.
Resources mentioned:
Blog post: https://honestunderscore.com/practice/
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Jul 31, 2023
Jul 31, 2023
32 min
In this episode we talk about why we have a family word for the year and how ironic the word of the year for us has been as we’ve experienced it so far.
We also introduce the seemingly similar ideas of togetherness and closeness and how they are actually not the same. The move away from Lynchburg to Charlotte has made that so evident.
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Jul 24, 2023
Jul 24, 2023
32 min
In this episode, we fill you in on the one week hiatus we took off and what happened in the mean time. It includes flooding, power outages, help of friends & neighbors, and the importance of cultivating community.
If you missed us last week, here’s a good episode to catch up on the things you’ve missed. Our table was partly under water, so we apologize and appreciate your patience!
Much love from the Tare’s!
Resources mentioned:Our amazing friends, neighbors, and everyone that helped out: Gracie, Jacob, Ray, Ash’s mom, AJ, Yemi (& her friend), Sam, Jonathan, Hannah, Robert, Trent, Jess, Sarah, Rebecca, Kim, Tim, Josh (our realtor), Owen (Josh’s team mate)The best Lynchburg area realtor: https://www.joshredmondrealestate.com/Our highly recommended Lynchburg movers: https://americanmovingnstorage.com/
Jul 10, 2023
Jul 10, 2023
32 min
In this episode we contrast our leadership styles and how they clashed in our home buying process. We compare the differences between someone who is more visionary versus someone who is more strategic. We also emphasize the importance of having complementary leadership styles in your team.
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Jul 3, 2023
Jul 3, 2023
31 min
In this episode we unpack the multigenerational family living approach that we have taken on as a family. We talk about its pros and cons and why we decided to live together with multiple generations under one roof.
Resources that have helped us: Anything written by Jeremy Pryor
Blog post referencing the morning meetings: https://honestunderscore.com/morning-meeting/
Movie mentioned: Avalon by Barry Levinson
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We appreciate your support and taking time to join us at our table!
Jun 26, 2023
Jun 26, 2023
35 min
In this episode we have a big life update! We’re talking about things to come and a recent loss in the family. We also wrestle through the concept of God’s favor, our faithfulness, and suffering. We’re excited for this next chapter in our life and are grateful to have you taking part in our journey!
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