Table Talks with the Tares

146 - Seeking the Sacred Work of Ordinary Days, What if Ordinary is the Point?

Inspired by a quote from Jane Lambert, we’re talking about what really matters when the days feel long but the years fly by. Whether it’s MJ at work or Ash at home, we both feel the weight of wanting to be fully present in this season with our kids.
In this episode, we reflect on our priorities and how we’re choosing to embrace the young years even when they’re messy, loud, and exhausting.
Quote mentioned:
“Someday, when our children are grown, very few of us will say, “I sure wish I had sold more at my job, or won more awards at work, or opened more new accounts from my employer.” But many of us may say, “I wish I had spent more time with my children when they were young.” - Jane Lambert
Next episode recommended: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/133-the-legacy-we-hope-to-build-not-raising-entitled-kids/id1661247515?i=1000717159583
Table Talks with the Tares: where we explore how to close the gap between what we intend and what we do, one honest conversation at a time.
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145 - What the Extrovert wishes the Introvert knew, Would you crash a wedding, and other conversations

Let’s be honest we think we know the difference between an introvert and an extrovert, but do we really? In this episode, we flip the script and let the extrovert (Ash) have the mic. We talk about how our energy needs clash, how we’ve learned to compromise (kind of), and what it looks like to love each other well when our wiring is so different. It's lighthearted, a little spicy, and definitely full of “Do we even know what we’re talking about?” moments.
Next episode recommended: 144 - What an Introvert Wishes an Extrovert Understood
Table Talks with the Tares: where we explore how to close the gap between what we intend and what we do, one honest conversation at a time.
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144 - What an Introvert Wishes an Extrovert Understood

 
In this episode, we’re talking all things introvert vs. extrovert, specifically what it’s like when those differences show up in marriage and postpartum life. From clashing needs to figuring out how to give each other space (or connection), we share how we’ve learned to meet in the middle and what we’re still figuring out.
Next episode recommended: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/131-embracing-lifes-lows-strategies-when-youre-not/id1661247515?i=1000715120895
Table Talks with the Tares: where we explore how to close the gap between what we intend and what we do, one honest conversation at a time.
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143 - What’s in my ADHD parenting toolkit: what actually helps

In this episode, Ash gets real about what it’s like parenting with ADHD and how she’s learned to work with her brain instead of against it. From creative hacks to honest moments of chaos, we unpack the wins, the struggles, and the systems that are actually working in this season. Whether you’re an ADHD parent or just trying to find your rhythm, this one’s full of relatable moments and practical ideas.
Next episode recommended: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-129-married-to-adhd-what-we-didnt-see-coming/id1661247515?i=1000713075597
Table Talks with the Tares: where we explore how to close the gap between what we intend and what we do, one honest conversation at a time.
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142 - Below Capacity: When you can’t operate at 100%

We’re deep in the newborn trenches and low on sleep, short on energy, and definitely not operating at 100. In this episode, we get real about how each of us is handling this season, what we’re doing to stay present, and little hacks that are helping us make it through. It’s a conversation about surviving without burning out, giving yourself grace, and holding onto the beauty in the middle of the chaos.
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Next episode recommended: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/table-talks-with-the-tares/id1661247515?i=1000722489606
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Table Talks with the Tares: where we explore how to close the gap between what we intend and what we do, one honest conversation at a time.
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141- Our Toddler Asks Why We Still Go To Church

Our 5-year-old hit us with a big question: “Why do we go to church?” In this episode, we talk about the conversation that followed and how it got us thinking about our own beliefs and the kind of example we want to set for our kids. We share our journey unpacking what it means to be the church, how our view has shifted over the years, and why we’re still choosing to show up.
Next episode recommended: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/table-talks-with-the-tares/id1661247515?i=1000705244570
‌Table Talks with the Tares: where we explore how to close the gap between what we intend and what we do, one honest conversation at a time.
Visit our website: www.honestunderscore.com.
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140 - Habits that didn’t stick

We’re in the thick of postpartum life with baby #3, and in this episode, we’re talking about what’s working and what’s not. From the rhythms we’re surprisingly holding onto, to the ones we’ve hit pause on, we’re keeping it honest about what real life looks like right now. We also chat about our decision to bring back family meetings and how we’re trying to stay connected in the middle of the chaos. If you’re navigating change too, hopefully you’re reminded you’re not alone.
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Table Talks with the Tares: where we explore how to close the gap between what we intend and what we do, one honest conversation at a time.
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139 - Not Okay, But Okay: A Real Postpartum Check-In

This time around feels different, and we’re talking about it. In this episode, we unpack what postpartum looks like with baby number 3, how our older kids are adjusting, what’s helping us stay (mostly) sane as a couple, the rhythms that are working right now… and what’s definitely on pause. If you’re in the thick of it or gearing up for your own postpartum season, this one's a real-life look at finding our footing again.
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Next episode recommended: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/138-fastest-labor-yet-how-our-third-baby-almost-arrived/id1661247515?i=1000722489606
Table Talks with the Tares: where we explore how to close the gap between what we intend and what we do, one honest conversation at a time.
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138 - Fastest Labor Yet: How Our Third Baby Almost Arrived in the ER Lobby

This birth story was wild! In this episode, we share the whirlwind arrival of our daughter, how labor kicked off fast, escalated even faster, and nearly ended with a delivery right at the ER entrance. From barely making it to the hospital to the moment she was born (in 2 hrs flat!), we’re reliving it all. If you love a good birth story or want to hear how we survived the chaos with a whole lot of adrenaline and grace, this one’s for you.
 
Resources mentioned:
Song: https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=9t5kSGe7rmM&si=ESzt9KenT0AiYUjU
Next episode recommended: Ep 124 Pregnant with Life, Surrounded by Loss
Table Talks with the Tares: where we explore how to close the gap between what we intend and what we do, one honest conversation at a time.
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137 - Have Kids Early and Often? What I Think About That

This one’s honest, reflective, and maybe a little spicy. We’re talking about how our view of starting a family has changed over the past five years and what we wish we'd known back then. From cultural messaging to Biblical vision, we unpack how we’re thinking about God’s design for family, what it’s looked like for us, and the advice we’d give to couples dreaming about their future family. Whether you’ve got littles now or are still figuring out the timeline, we hope this episode gives you thoughtful perspective to consider.
 
Resources mentioned:
Jeremy Pryor / Family Teams Podcast: The Family Teams Podcast
Next episode recommended: 133 - The Legacy We Hope to Build, Not Raising Entitled Kids
Table Talks with the Tares: where we explore how to close the gap between what we intend and what we do, one honest conversation at a time.
Visit our website: The Honest Underscore.
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